Missing you :")

I received the video this morning on one of my whatsapp group. It broke my heart when i realized how true the video is. The video was talking about how time has changed our relationship with our "used" to be gank. How close we were in the college, how easy we were to just hang out and did fool stuff. But now? we were hesitated even just to say hi.

Sometimes, i am wondering, what goes wrong? is it because of the time? is it me who become a jerk? or you become a jerk and not willing to make time for this so called friendship?.

Or is there any reason beside that?

 I read an article which is saying "Losing touch with your old college friends is a natural consequence of growing older. It isnt solely up to you to keep every friendship you've ever had alive-some things fade out naturally, because they should. and that's okay".

Really?

This evening, i talked with my other friend regarding this topic. Her answer has succesfully blown my mind. She said "Raisa, people come and ago in our life. It's just like when we were passing by with someone on our way to go somewhere. Sometimes we are meeting this person longer than others because we are on the same road, has the same direction at that time. But when we reach our goal, we are eventually split our way. We should moving forward and continues our journey to reach our other goal. So if you are losing your friend along the way, that's normal. It doesnt mean that one of you is "the jerk". It's just because you are walking on different road".

I found her opinion very interesting because sometimes when bad thing happened in my life, i tended to put the blame on something (it could be on me or other people). But maybe, actually, there's none of the party is the wrong one.

It's just the road that was taken is different.
It's just the situation that has changed.
It's just us who has to grow up.

But you, my dearest friends, yes, you.
I'm still missing you.
Till we meet again,

Raisa